Hi, I’m David Spielman

Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, Lifelong Nerd, and Founder of Quirkiatry.

I’m a gay, autistic, ADHD-brained human.

I have a deep love for gaming (Souls games, WoW, LoL, Dota 2 - the list goes on), anime, and unconventional thinking. I also have a PhD in English, which I left behind for psychiatry after feeling disillusioned with academics. I started Quirkiatry to create a space where you don't have to check your passions or your identity at the door.

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I didn’t grow up knowing I was neurodivergent. I was diagnosed with ADHD and dyslexia in my late 30s and later recognized myself as autistic. I’ve spent years learning to unmask, embrace my brain, and celebrate the parts of me that never quite fit the mold. I’ve also struggled with masking, burnout, rejection sensitivity, procrastination, and was misdiagnosed with treatment-resistant depression for decades. If these sound like challenges you’re facing, I definitely get it.

My clients tell me they feel seen, safe, and understood. I show up as myself so you can too. You won’t be treated like a problem to fix, instead, we’ll explore how your brain works, what matters to you, and how we can make care feel collaborative and effective while helping you reach your goals.
I believe in shared decision-making, practical solutions, and building something sustainable together. No scripts. No shame. Just real, human support from someone who gets it.

What You Can Expect

A Specialist with Lived Experience

Learning about yourself and ADHD/autism from a leading specialist who also has ADHD and autism himself.

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Shared Decision-Making

Shared decision-making, where your input drives treatment as much as possible.

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Convenient Tools

Convenient self-scheduling and messaging tools to stay in touch.

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Data-Driven Progress

Data-driven decision-making and progress tracking using industry standard rating scales.

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I don’t just work in this niche, I live it.

I take meds like Vyvanse and Wellbutrin, I’ve tried different therapy approaches, and I’ve been in the seat you’re in now, wondering if anyone’s going to “get it.” My whole day is spent working with neurodivergent clients. That means I get to see patterns and possibilities that generalists might miss. I stay on top of research, clinical strategies, and lived experience, not just to treat symptoms, but to help you understand your brain and navigate life in a way that finally makes sense.